GOMO - The Grief of Missing Out, is so very real.
We’re familiar with FOMO - the fear of missing out; that angsty, icky feeling that can often drive us to say yes when we want to say no, and most of us know the pleasure of JOMO - the joy of missing out; that pleasant, secure, spacious feeling of settling into the not going or doing.
But GOMO is a whole different beast that isn't addressed by shifting out of scarcity the way FOMO is, and isn't about surrendering in the way JOMO invites us to - nope, GOMO, the very real grief of not getting to do the thing you want to do, or not getting to be with who you want to be with is something else.
